Do you feel like being nice to people or treating them in the right way makes you weak? Or do you feel like they will loose their respect for you if you become nice? Is that what has made you hard and cold? Is there any reason why you should become nicer and more fun to be with?
Well, let me do the honors of unveiling the 5 secrets right before your eyes.....
1. They are human
What does it mean to be human? In short, It means to have feelings and emotions. Typically, all the people around you are human even the guy who opens the door or the lady in the cafeteria. They are human, have feelings and can get hurt by the things you say and do.They will be much happier to serve you treat them nicely or at least ask for help politely instead of offering more money or a higher position.
2. It earns you more respect
Being harsh and frightful forces people to respect you and it may fade away as soon as you loose the power to control them. Instead, when you earn the respect by treating others with respect, upholding virtues and principles, it will last a lifetime and they will miss you when you are absent. They will long for you to be present and even assist you in making right decisions.
3.Your reputation
A wise man once wrote a good reputation is better than fine oil. This means no matter how successful you are the way you treat others has a huge role to play if you want to maintain a good name. If you have ever been treated unfairly, do you remember how you felt?Yes, people will always remember when you are kind to them, and they will also remember when you are unkind.
A word
It’s true that life is not a fairytale and there would always be the bad guys that are always bad no matter how you treat them. We trust you to be the good guy and know how to put the bad guy in their place without becoming one of them.
4.For your future
Life is unpredictable and we would never wish for anything unfortunate to happen but try to think for a second if all the things that are making you powerful now are taken away from you and you are put in the lower position of the people you are treating wrongly would you survive? Would you they happy to welcome you? Would you truly have someone to fall back on or are they only enduring your presence for what you have to offer?
5. For yourself
When you are humble and simple you stress less thinking about what others think about you, you would have more energy to focus on yourself and your likes. You’ll have a deeper reason for doing what you do other than to rub your success in other peoples faces.
Now that you know the importance of humility do you want to know what humility is?
Dear Emperor/Empress
Thank you much much for reading!!
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